You’re Not Crazy, You’re Evolving: The Tools That Helped Me Outgrow My Old Life

Apr 27, 2025

If you’re feeling stuck, restless, or like you're living in a life that doesn’t fit you anymore, you're not crazy. You're evolving.

In my latest podcast episode, I opened up about the messy, often misunderstood season that happens right before your next level unfolds.
It’s the moment where everything familiar feels wrong... but the future hasn’t fully arrived yet either.
And truthfully? It’s one of the hardest spaces to navigate as a founder, a creator, and a human being who knows they’re meant for more.

I’m walking through it right now, and if you are too, I see you.

Growth isn't just about bold moves. It’s about building a life that quietly supports the future you're stepping into.

That’s why I created a curated Amazon list full of the actual tools, books, and essentials that have helped me stay grounded while I evolve.

You can shop the full list here: Tools for Evolution — Systems, Mindset, Boundaries

What This Season of Evolution Really Looks Like

Everyone loves to talk about the before (the dream) and the after (the success)... but hardly anyone tells the truth about the middle.

The part where:

You feel like you’re disappointing people just by choosing yourself.
Your old routines stop working, but your new habits haven’t clicked yet.
You feel guilty for outgrowing spaces that once felt like home.
Every decision feels heavy, and you constantly wonder if you’re making the right moves.

In this week's episode, I break down:

How to shift your identity before you have external proof
How I rebuilt my systems, boundaries, and inputs to support my next-level life
The decision filter that’s saved me from making fear-based choices:

“Does this keep me stuck in who I’ve been—or move me closer to who I’m called to be?”

Because here's the truth: You can't create a new future while staying loyal to an old life.

Why Systems, Boundaries, and Inputs Matter More Than Ever

When everything inside you is shifting, you must build external scaffolding that keeps you anchored.

That’s where my Tools for Evolution Amazon List comes in.

Inside, you’ll find:

Systems that work when your willpower runs out (like minimalist planning tools and desktop organizers)
Resources to strengthen your boundaries (like books that help you say no without guilt)
Intentional inputs that protect your energy (from curated books to ambient tools that declutter your mind)
Environmental resets that remind you daily: you’re becoming someone new.

Because evolution doesn’t just happen inside your mind.
It happens in the way you structure your days, guard your energy, and curate your environment.

If you’re ready to start building a life that matches who you’re becoming, you’ll love The Archive™ — the digital system I created to help ambitious women plan, execute, and evolve with clarity and ease.

You don’t rise into a new life by accident.
You build for it.

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Crazy—You’re Courageous

If you're sitting in the tension of “I know there's more for me,” but everything around you feels shaky—hold the line.

You're not behind. You're not broken. You're not crazy.

You are standing in the middle of your evolution.

And if you need reinforcements for the road ahead, this Amazon list and The Archive™ are full of tools to help you build toward the life you can already see in your heart.

You are not losing everything.
You are finding yourself.
Stay with it.